In private meditation or with someone helping you do guided visualization, go deep within and listen, asking your baby why s/he has not yet decided to go through the birth process. It is the baby who initiates labor. Unlimited answers are possible and might include: fear of the birth process (yours or the baby’s); aversion to one or more participants or location planned for the birth; or your feelings of lack of readiness for parenthood. (It may seem as if the answer is coming from your imagination, but your imagination is an important part of your mind.) Then listen for any possible solutions that may be offered.
It’s true. I’m just not ready for parenthood. Or maybe the baby is afraid of Noah (Graeme pointed this out). Hmmmm…… maybe castor oil isn’t such a bad option. Or… just waiting.